Is it better India or abroad?

Every time I come back to India from my university abroad, I’m often asked the same question by the aunties: “Where do you think its better, India or the UK?”

It’s a question that always amuses me, because for me, the answer is very simple.

Life is better where you choose to make it: whether that’s India, the UK, or any other place in the world. It is better where you get what you want out of life. It’s not about which country is superior or more exciting; it’s about where you feel at home, and where opportunities align with your dreams.

What I’ve come to realise is that every place has its own set of pros and cons. The correct answer only lies in individual priorities; what does or doesn't work for you.

In India, I find comfort in the familiarity of home, the vibrant culture, and the warmth of being surrounded by family. The cost of living is significantly lower, and there are more affordable options for housing, transport, food, and yes, a lot more help at home too.

India also has some of the world’s top educational institutions like the IITs and IIMs. It’s a booming space for startups and entrepreneurial ventures. However, the education system here is often criticised for being rigid and overly theoretical. Specialised courses or opportunities in niche fields may not always be accessible - though that is steadily changing.

All in all, India is a comfortable and convenient option, especially if your goals align with what it offers.

On the other hand, studying abroad, especially in places like the UK or the US, has offered me multicultural exposure, access to diverse academic disciplines, and the chance to explore new ideas and perspectives. Waking up every day in a completely new environment, having to interact with people from different cultures, and adjusting to unfamiliar ways of thinking - it opens your mind like nothing else. It forces you to grow.

Career-wise, some paths like fashion, media, or even certain kinds of research might have more viable opportunities in global cities. The employability factor and professional exposure in such environments can be much broader.

But this doesn’t come without trade-offs. The cost of studying and living abroad is often extremely high, leading to student loans and debt. Visa complications and sponsorship issues can be real barriers. Homesickness hits. And in some fields like medicine, a degree earned abroad may not even be valid back home.

In the end, it’s not about which place is better - it’s about what YOU want out of life.

Think about your career goals, your financial situation, and your curiosity for the world. Studying abroad can offer a global perspective and incredible growth, while staying in India can provide strong academics, family support, and a more budget-friendly path.

If you're looking for familiarity, community, and comfort - India is the place to be.

If you're seeking challenge, change, and personal evolution - going abroad might be the move.

Both choices are valid. Both can be fulfilling.

And with time I have only come to realise, that it’s not the place, it’s you and your loved ones who make the journey worthwhile :)